The Crave
Weekly tips and stories that will help you do your job and make you smile (or groan).
By Julie Alexander January 13, 2022
Bitten off more than you can chew?
I may be the queen of taking on too much. Biting off more than I can chew. Overextending. Spreading myself too thin. It’s a thing. I remember once a couple of years ago, a manager of mine brought this up. It went something like this: “So, Julie, I noticed you have a tendency to take on a lot of projects… perhaps too many. Is that something I can help you with? I know learning how to say no can be tough for people pleasers—” Wait. What? Did he just call me a people pleaser? Am I a people pleaser? I had to seriously consider this. I had never thought of myself as a people pleaser before. And I’ll be honest, it set me back for a bit. I went home and talked to my husband about it. I journaled about it. I read about a third of a self-help book on how to stop being a people pleaser. And then I realized: no. I’m definitely not a people pleaser. I’m not afraid to push back or say no to things that I disagree with or that don’t make sense. And I’m not filling up my plate to make others happy. At my core, I say yes to projects because I’m excited about them. Today, if I had the same conversation, I’d have my answer ready: “Yes, I do have a tendency to take on too much, and I definitely want to work on that because I should be delegating more, and I should get better at saying no. But it’s not because I’m afraid to say no. It’s not because I want to make others happy — it’s because I want to make me happy. I think I’m just enthusiastic.”
If you want to help an enthusiastic person with their workload, it’s not necessarily about telling them to say no; it’s about empowering them to properly manage their workload.
I bring this up here because I know people working in content often have overflowing plates. Our cups runneth over with projects and tasks that could carry us into the next lifetime (or five). A lot of us like to do a lot. What is it with that? Are we all pandering people-pleasers running around like little minions, too afraid to say no so we’re drowning in work? I don’t think so. I think a lot of us in creative jobs are just, excited to make things. We get a lot of ideas, and we love to run with other people’s ideas. We get joy from making things, and so we want to keep making more awesome things. I truly believe that it’s that simple for a lot of us. What that manager did really well in that conversation was this: “How can I help you with that?” It was the perfect question. And I have the answer. If you want to help an enthusiastic person with their workload, it’s not necessarily about telling them to say no, it’s about empowering them to properly manage their workload. That could either mean training them to manage it themselves, or it could mean enabling them by having someone else manage it for them. Help your team manage themselves
Scenario one is great for content marketers, content managers, and people who aren’t just creating, but also publishing, researching, thinking up ideas, and the like. Enable them with training and tools to manage their work more efficiently. To start with, get your team a project management tool — for the love of all things holy and good in this world — and make sure that there are clear priorities and timelines set in place. Structure, clear communication, and accountability are the keys to this scenario.
Or enable your team by providing project management for them
Scenario two is perfect for pure creators — your designers and copywriters. If you have an in-house team with these kinds of roles, please seriously consider getting a Content Operations role carved out in your team. Or make sure you have the time and energy to project manage for these folks. There are always exceptions, and if you have a creative person who is good at managing their own requests, stakeholders, projects, etc., then great! But if not, let them do what they’re good at (and what you hired them for) and let someone else who’s good at project management do that for them.
Either way, don't leave it to chance Are there people pleasers out there who need help learning to say no? Yes! Are there a lot of content creators out there who want to make a lot of great stuff and just need some help managing it all? 100% yes. Good project management helps solve for both because it provides a true foundation for saying yes to the right things and no (or later) to the things that can wait. Interested in this topic? Feel free to read this article I wrote — it also features some of my favorite process templates that you can grab and use for yourself!
Let’s talk about it together!
Share your thoughts on LinkedIn using #thecravediscussion This week’s topic: What is your best advice for people who tend to bite off more than they can chew?
Currently craving
- A good cup of coffee, but that will have to wait until 2023 — wish me luck with this resolution, folks.
- If you’re not subscribed to The Marketing Meetup newsletter, I suggest you go do it now! It’s one of the few I’ve kept around in my inbox. It’s genuinely lovely to read, and always offers great ideas and insights to get me going.
- This breakdown of permissionless co-marketing. Am I doing it right? 😉
Julie van der Weele
Head of Brand & Comms
About the author
When I’m not thinking up B2B marketing strategies and processes, you’ll find me in the kitchen, at the yoga studio, or in my favorite chair with a cat and a book.